Baby Monitor Infrared

We are wondering what the best Video Baby Monitor is?
We are moving into a new home where our 22month olds bedroom will be rather far from our bedroom & I feel a Video Monitor is the best thing for our situation. However, He wont sleep unless his room is almost completely pitch black so I've read that there are the Infrared vid monitors available but they are pretty expensive. Anyone have any experience with the ones with the LED/or regular lights actually on the camera itself? My son can't take light in his face and will wake up would this be a problem with these cameras?
I found a nice one on ebay for cheap because the antenna is gone off from the monitor itself do you think this would affect it? We are across the house from my sons bedroom so wondering if it would still work ok?
Anyway what is the best brand/monitor itself that you would recommend for Baby Video monitors?

Thanks!! =)